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I came across this photo in my old camera. It’s of a cat curled around a rose bush. It probably hurts a little bit to be curled around a rose bush. The cat stays anyway. It has made the best … Continue reading

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reactions that are too big

i  recently had several parts react to an event. the initial reaction seemed ok. but then the emotions continued to increase in intensity. the reaction now seemed out of proportion to the event. so i asked around inside. to find … Continue reading

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leaping tall buildings

we have successfully managed to say no to a visit from our family of origin (FOO). it was very difficult for us as a system to say no. we have never put ourselves first or set any boundaries like this … Continue reading

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